Keep your hands open ~ Taisen Deshimaru http://justdharma.com/s/6tkqm Keep your hands open, and all the sands of the desert can pass through them. Close them, and all you can feel is a bit of grit. – Taisen Deshimaru quoted in the book &quot;Zen to Go: Bite-Sized Bits of Wisdom&quot; ISBN: 978-1570614477 - https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1570614474/ref=as_li_tf_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1570614474&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=jusdhaquo-20